Archive - New Pattern Counseling Newsletter

3 Principles for Healthy Love

One of the hardest, most painful, complicated, treacherous, volatile, and costly endeavors in all human existence is to fall in love. Few things cut so…

Mar 31 • Rhys Pasimio

A marvelous place to teach us about life!

Mar 18 • Rhys Pasimio

Learn From Whoever Can Teach You

I like to exercise.

Mar 12 • Rhys Pasimio

Outer Circle, Inner Stillness Podcast

Conversations with Rhys & other experts on facets of the Sober Life

Mar 11 • Rhys Pasimio

Distraction versus Rejuvenation

4 More Foundations for Long-Lasting Recovery

Mar 5 • Rhys Pasimio

February 2026

Long-Lasting Sobriety

3 Foundational Principles

Feb 26 • Rhys Pasimio

Why Do I need to have a “problem”?

Finding a “treasure beyond reckoning”

Feb 19 • Rhys Pasimio

About Visions & Goals

6 Qualities of Good Goals

Feb 11 • Rhys Pasimio

Introduction to the Enneagram

A workshop of self-discovery for healthier relationships

Feb 7 • Rhys Pasimio

Why Study the Personality?

What the Enneagram has to offer

Feb 4 • Rhys Pasimio

January 2026

Should I watch the News?

Considering & cultivating your “Inner Life”

Jan 30 • Rhys Pasimio

Welcome to my new spot for thoughts and updates!

Jan 30 • Rhys Pasimio

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